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The Lying BB!

TheSaneOne's picture

She calls my DH at 5:30 numerous times to say their daughter is unresponsive in the ER with a 103 fever. Me, the detective that I am noticed that she was online on the computer, so I (or should I say my alternate other...a guy profile I have) decided to chat with her. This whole time she is texting him that she is at the ER. So, I think ok, maybe the er was through and she's back at home. Called the hospital, they live in a small town, only one hospital around, and they haven't had anyone in the emergency room all morning.
Why would she lie?
What should I do? I am at wits end dealing with her and her constant calls and emails to my husband. She was the one that had the affair and moved his kids three states away. But calls us to discipline them for sneaking food out of the cabinets.
She is on her second divorce in less than a year. She has numerous men over to her home and posts nude, disgusting pics of herself online. She has been diagnosed bi-polar and I am believing she is also a socio-path. Who would speak harm on a child like that?
I think its because we are suppose to get them next week since she hasn't let us see them since this summer.

Thanks for letting me vent.

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need2vent's picture

One charcteristic of bipolar is to lie and have trouble seeing what is wrong with it.
She seems to be lying to manipulate , would not be the first time on this site I am sure that ex decided she would go for what she thought was not worthy at the time, her exh, your DH, but suddenly finds herslf without a man and in need of one because it sounds she is incapable of being happy without one.
I am impressed with your work in finding her out, my girlfriend and I swear we could be detecives , but may need lessons form you! LOL

TheSaneOne's picture

Thank you, I love finding things out, I am a paralegal and do side work for a detective agency. This woman flirts with me and everything. If she knew who she was talking to. I even found her birth mom for her, who is locked up in prison, but told her I couldn't/ She looked for fifteen years and I had her in two days. I mostly help CP locate NCP for child support and skip trace. I wanted to make it a profession but can't go to the school for 6 months.
I used to date a cop, but told him I would always be the detective, caught him cheating and out the door he went!
Thanks for letting me vent. It just sickens me that she would lie about a child's intrest much less call my home at 5:30 in the morning. Of course if I ever answer, she sits silent, and I hang up. She won't speak to me, I had to cut that off because for a whole she kept calling me with all her marital problems, etc. This marriage of hers lsated 3 months. I dont see how my mild mannered husband did it for 7 years!

alwaysthemom's picture

My skids BM lies all the time. To my DH and to the kids. I think it's lousy and pathetic. By the way, I'd like to know more about the detective work??? Can you do this with myspace and just befriend BM or what??

My kids biggest cheerleader

Conflicted's picture

What I don't get is WHY??
Why do they do this??
Why can't they more on??
Why are they allowed to keep innocent children in their care when they are so obviously crazy??