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Sweetie's picture

Hi all,
Well, if I were in the UK, I'd be saying, "bloody hell, I've had my husband underfoot for 2 days, with 8 more to go! He is on vacation from work and will be home with me so this should be pretty interesting. I sent him out to go swimming a couple of hours ago to keep him busy. I'm not used to having him around like this and it will probably drive me over the edge by lunchtime tomorrow.
Thankfully, I haven't heard back on my email or phone messages from the ex. She is probably figuring how to do a drive by on me. I'd just wish she'd leave me alone, and just wait for the checks to arrive. It's not like I've never not paid her. And then she sends me medical bills asking for money that I already paid the provider last November. I just can't fathom when you are making over 80K how can you be so concerned about $20 here or there when you have no mortgage or expenses? She lives off her boyfriend. I mean would you worry about a lousy $15 dr. copay? It's just so asinine it drives me nuts. And then, she goes into this long spiel about how terrible I am and how guilty I should feel about my SD's pain. What about me? She's worse than a pain in the ___ or a hemmorrhoid. You just want to take your hands and put them around her neck and squeeze the air out. And why, can't she accept that after everything that has gone on, my husband wants nothing to do with her or my SD? How hard is that?
I think that you have to have a certain IQ, or genetic deficiency trait, in order to qualify to be one of these people. People like us, who are writing and trying to figure this stuff out, can't do it. It boggles our mind how anyone can be so ignorant, classless, and such an imbecile. It's like saying, are you some kind of moron? And they're so clueless, they'd ask what it was?
I hope the rest of you have had a great weekend.....I am not sure how this week will go. Hope you all enjoy.
Regards,
Sweetie

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lylagarrett's picture

I understand everything that you have written as I am going through so much of the same as you are. While preparing for the DHS hearing I have found that not only over the years have we paid over $45,000.00 in child support to the ex that she used to vacation on without the kids on numerous occasions, we have also forked out over $10,000.00 in medical bills which was court ordered to pay directly to the ex. And when she finally finds the time to send the medical bills they are lumped together for a whole year at a time and the previous balances on the bills are astronimical. In other words the money we pay her for medical isn't getting paid to medical and the child support isn't going to support the children. It is so maddening to have to pay to support her! We have since found that she has been committing insurance fraud by carrying her own insurance on the children and filing both ours and hers as primary carrier. We have proof of over $6000.00 in insurance fraud! Although we know it is illegal for her to do this we are afraid to turn her in due to the ramifications it will cause! Anyway, just wanted you to know that I understand and hope that things begin to look up for you soon!