Well, for all my husband's faults, and at times he drives me crazy with stupidity--but I've got to admit the amount of time wasted with the medical cards and other stupid stuff that I have listened to from both of my stepkids over the years, I'd almost swear that it has to be genetic, some chromosomonal abnormality "x" factor or something which makes them incredibly stupid, and lacking common sense, class, and just plain courtesy like their mother. I don't get it. But in a nutshell, sitting here, and I looked back at what I wrote yesterday, and how frustrated I was, now matter how many times I tried and my husband tried to teach both of my stepkids to be responsible, it was useless, because their mother is a complete imbecile. And you can't ever overcome that. And in their eyes, they she's just great. The whole realization of this scenario is sickening and nauseating, but I know that honestly it is useless for me to even get worked up because nothing will ever get resolved. Neither of the kids will ever be responsible. They will both be just like their mom, using and manipulating people. And frankly, I am at the point with my SS, that I am completly washing my hands of him. I will ignore the phone when he calls. I just don't care. He couldn't call me, when it was important to me, then his dad was sick, and now it's been a month and we haven't heard from him. So, to me, he's dead. Sooner or later, he'll want something, and when the time comes, I won't know him. He'll get a taste of his own medicine. Even cats run out of lives, although he has somehow always managed to land on his feet, it can't always happen. His luck has to run out sometime.
And from now on, I am going to try and think about something else. I don't know what it will be but it's got to be better than stupid people.