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Biomom's Love Life and Living Arrangements Upside Down Again

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Submitted by Sweetie on Mon, 06/05/2006 - 2:08pm

Well, it looks like history is starting to repeat itself again.
Near as I can tell, most likely, biomom has gotten herself into a heated dispute with boyfriend and has flown the coop. Leaving 17 yr SD with her BF in MD while she is doing who knows what this time--moving somewhere again--it's almost like a ritual. It's like deja vu. DH doesn't even want to hear about it...but I am annoyed. BF has kept SD so she can remain in the school district to get her own way, for the last year, circumventing the overcrowded zoning problem. It's just too over the top, and we are still paying support. This isn't right. But, do you keep paying because you don't want the problem at your doorstep? Because honestly, I wouldn't let her in the house. I wouldn't trust SD not to make up stories that she "touched" or anything else, or other accusations since she'd learned to be such a manipulator. DH could easily lose his employment, and all security clearances, and then we'd be toasted. But I know that she's moving and boxing up stuff.....and still haven't heard anything else from SS. Leads me to believe that he is well aware of what biomom has been doing. I just want to get out and away from this madness spinning around me and I've got 11 months left. I'm not sure I'm going to make it. You must remember we moved to GA to get the heck away from biomom, who is twisted. It's enough to make your mind boggled. I've had a migraine for two days now.
Regards,
Sweetie

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Submitted by Dawn-Moderator on Mon, 06/05/2006 - 5:21pm

I can understand your mind being boggled. That's because we just can't understand what people like that are thinking.

We are waiting for the s%#$ to hit the fan with biomom over here too. It is only a matter of time before she finds another new boyfriend and kicks ex-boyfriend out of the house because she won't need him anymore. Personally, we don't care but all of her crap affects stepson negatively. That we do care about!

Dawn

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Submitted by Sweetie on Mon, 06/05/2006 - 7:20pm

Dear Dawn,
Your turn with keeping up with biomom's soap opera living arrangements is probably just around the corner. I was just hoping that we were going to make it till next May. But I should have remembered, with her nasty temper, it was only a matter of time!
Regards,
Sweetie

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Submitted by happy mom on Mon, 06/05/2006 - 7:59pm

I can't believe biomom left SD w/boyfriend? She is still a child. Biomom's head must be all messed up, she's suppose to take care of daughter and child support is for the child. How can she take care of daughter when she is not even with her... Why didn't biomom send SD to live w/you guys, not that you want that, but if she had to dump the child somewhere, I would think w/her dad?

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Submitted by Sweetie on Tue, 06/06/2006 - 8:34am

Dear Happy Mom,
One of the biggest issues is with biomom's temperament-or should I say temper. And when she's been wrong, she will never admit. Nor, will she "coming crawling back and say she's wrong" because it would make her look weak. So, after f&&**^^%$$#@#@ up and creating these huge messes, with not one child, but two now, yes, history repeats itself again, she can't do anything else but run to another hole till she find some other idiot to tell her said tell of woe to. And biomom, has told SD, that she's never done anything to apologize for, and apologies are never necessary. They just make people weak. So, therein, lies the crux of the matter for this mess. Besides, she told us, she would never let SD come back (as if that matters now), and usually she is positioning herself to try and manipulate my DH into a spot where he is having a defend himself from fabricated threats of physical and emotional abuse from the stepchildren. I've spent more money and time in court in the last ten years than you realize. Regards,
Sweetie