My step-daughter called my boyfriend on Mother's Day requesting to wish everyone a Happy Mother's Day. The child asked for her Aunt but, my boyfriend explained to his daughter that the Aunt was in a game and was not reachable. My boyfriend didn't want to give the child his sister's new cell number which the Bio-Mom doesn't have. Then the child asked to speak to her grandmother. My boyfriend put the grandmother on the phone. After the grandmother was done she passed me the phone. It felt awkward for me to have a conversation with my step-daughter because, I knew that the Bio-Mom didn't tell the daughter to call me because, she doesn't like me so, why would she tell her daughter to wish me Happy Mother's Day. The step-daughter stated Happy Mother's Day, and I thanked her for it. In return I did tell her Happy Mother's Day to her mom, her grandmother, and her GodMother(which is the Bio-Mom's Sister). I returned the phone to my boyfriend. My boyfriend then said his good-bye ritual. After he hung up he told me and his mother that he heard the Bio-Mom yelling at his daughter that she only told her to wish her Grandmother a Happy Mother's Day. My boyfriend was like you know how rude that would have been of my daughter to only wish my mother a Happy Mother's Day. I explained to my boyfriend that it is clearly evident she expresses how she truly feels to her daughter, and it is sad. I also explained to my boyfriend that is why your daughter feels in the middle of the situation because, she has what her mother feels and she has what you feel and that puts her in an emotional turmoil.
I also told my boyfriend apparently your daughter did her own thing because, if the mother told her only to wish your mother a Happy Mother's Day and your daughter did otherwise then your daughter really doesn't respect her mother's wishes, and does her own thing. Which I told my boyfriend it show's that your daughter can use her better judgement.