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Damned no matter what I do !@#$%^&

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Submitted by stepwhat on Thu, 04/15/2010 - 11:21pm

It just feels like a now win situation with SD25.
BM can admit to breaking up her family, twice, for infidelity and she still comes out smelling like a rose.
I call SD out on her verbal barrage lobbed at me and I am stinking of insulting parent and being passive aggressive.
Just because her BM lets her lash out at her, am I suppose to take it?
Is it too much to ask for a modicum of respect for our place as parents?

Is it worth it?

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Submitted by stepwhat on Sun, 04/11/2010 - 1:35am

I have stayed in this marriage for nearly 20 years and I'm still wondering if it worth it? Why am I staying? DH ex drove a wedge between me and SD when she was a child and now that she's an adult SD doesn't see it or keeps it in place, not sure which one.
I just don't know if I have it in me to fight against it. I so often feel like it would be so much easier to just leave.