My SS21 hasn't had anything to do with either DH or me in I dont know how long. Last summer, he had his car parked in our yard, without our permission. So we had him move it. About 4-6 months ago, SS21 called Dh out of the blue, and asked him to take him to a job interview. When Dh said something to the effect of "why didnt you call earlier?" SS21 cussed him out and hung up. SS21 called DH back 5 min. later said sorry, and wanted him to still come get him. Dh, of course did it. (much to my unhappiness)
Fast forward to 15 minutes ago. SS21 calls DH and wants him to come get him from the hospital. I guess SS went out to ER with somesort of virus. SS21 wants DH to drive all the way to other side of town to pick him up and then take him to the complete opposite side of town. I told Dh that he shouldn't just "run" anytime SS calls. SS doesnt want to come around any other time, and I think DH is wrong for jumping at SS beck and call.