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Am I overacting? Or does this sound fishy?

stepsonhatesme's picture

Submitted by stepsonhatesme on Tue, 01/29/2013 - 1:26pm

My BS who turned 18 last wed has blocked my dh and me from his fb. Which I have no problem with, if he doesn't want us seeing it, fine. Well, he didn't block his sister, my youngest bd. They have been talking constantly, and I mean all day Friday, Saturday, Sunday. Then he just shows up at the house this morning, claiming he needEd to talk to her about something. She claimed it was about the pics of his tattoos he got. I told her that if he was tagged in them, then he would have been able to see the comments himself. She said no. well after I got her off to school I went home an got on fb, she had blocked both of my fb and my dh.
My question is why would she all of a sudden block us if she wasn't doing anything wrong? She knows the rules that I have access to her fb whenever I want, just to make sure she's not posting anything she shouldn't be. She's never had us blocked before. I have a feeling she's up to no good, that deals with her brother.
Sorry for spelling errors, i'm on my phone and it loves to auto correct

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Jsmom's picture

Submitted by Jsmom on Tue, 01/29/2013 - 1:35pm

They both are. Rule in my house is I have your password or you have no wifi connection.

Disable the Wifi and their data plan on their phones until they fess up....

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Submitted by stormabruin on Tue, 01/29/2013 - 1:49pm

Rules are rules. If yours say that you have access to her FB whenever you want & she doesn't grant it, you don't grant her access either.

If there wasn't something questionable going on, she'd have had no reason to block you. I say you cut off her access until you get to see her account. If there's inappropriate material, you leave her access off.

If she can't follow rules & be responsible with her internet privileges, she doesn't get them.

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Submitted by NancyL on Tue, 01/29/2013 - 4:09pm

Your BS probably got her password and blocked both of you. You said that he was in the house and she may not know how to block people.

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Submitted by hismineandours on Tue, 01/29/2013 - 4:14pm

Yes, I would find this extremely suspicious. Drugs, possibly? What would your son need to come over and talk to her about-when apparently they can talk quite easily online? Sounds like one of them needed to give the other something. Just my suspicous mind.

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Submitted by cant win for losin on Tue, 01/29/2013 - 9:34pm

why don't you have her fb password? If you do, then log on to her fb and look through it. I wouldn't even waste my time asking her what is going on. Get on there look through it and unblock yourself.
Then lay down the rule if she blocks you again you will deactivate the account.

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Submitted by stepsonhatesme on Tue, 01/29/2013 - 9:55pm

I want to thank everyone.
I did get to the bottom of this. My BS(18) knew her password and blocked us.she had nothing to do with it. I had her go in an unblock us AND change her password. I have it and that's it, nobody else. She had no idea why my BS showed up this morning. My bd is (17).
I am changing my wifi password so he can't get on it any longer.
My bd(17) had nothing to hide from us. She re friended both of us with no problem.
She was pissed that her brother did this to her. I'm not allowing him back in this house unless he stays in the living room within my sight.Because I don't trust him.

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Submitted by stepsonhatesme on Wed, 01/30/2013 - 6:48am

I still have no idea WHY he showed up. It could be that he was the one acting weird. Goodness only knows why on that one. Since he always seems to be acting weird and up to something. My BD was in her room getting dressed and her makeup on, so she had a reason to be upstairs. BS did not have any reason. He could have waited until she came down.
She let me have her pc to look thru and Ifound nothing suspicious.
My BD still says that the only thing he wanted to do was use her pc to answer back to the comments on his pics of the tattoos. BS has a pc thru the school, but FB if blocked at school( as is any other social sites). Apparently he doesnt have internet access at his dads house.