How sweet..........and sickening (sorry just have to vent)
As you all know, my DH and I are getting a divorce. He has made it clear that him, his kids and their feelings, wants etc count and mine don't. So this a.m. I get up and following a prompt by a good friend of mine to look at my DH's facebook page and there it is, big as life.............. a picture posted of my DH asleep on OSD's shoulder (she's 21)and the title is "Sleepy Daddy". Well after all she was his first mini-wife who was replaced by other SD when OSD went to college.
This after a few weeks ago he replaced his cover picture of he and I at our wedding by a picture of him with his arm around his 17 year old daughter.
What the hell??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Why would your friend
Why would your friend encourage you to look at his Facebook page? :? You're getting a divorce, keeping a wedding picture on his page would be crazy. Your friend had to know the changes on his page would hurt/annoy you.
Good point. And maybe he's
Good point. And maybe he's feeling the need to play Father of the Year even more so because of the new divorce.
I also agree with you.
I also agree with you. Facebook does not show "real life". My FB probably looks like I live in one happy little family world. While my world does revolve around my children, DH isn't quite as much as a FOTY as he looks in my pictures. I've taken DH off my newsfeed because I'm sick of his political rants, and I'm so glad that he's never been like that in real life. If it stays limitedd to FB, we're fine.
I was just thinking about how fake FB is today. I have a former coworker "friend" who is over 50, and still acts like her birthday is the biggest day of the year. Today is her birthday, and all weekend were constant posts about celebrations, and today she posted more about how wonderful it will be. She even boasted about getting "even more gifts!". Seriously? I really have to wonder if her life is really as wonderful as she posts. Maybe she needs to post to boost herself up. I don't understand it. I'm glad for her if she's really that happy, but it's really too much.
Unless you can be void of emotion, ex's really needed to be unfriended.
The best thing to do is block
The best thing to do is block him. He made his choice and now all he going to have is 2 fully grown daughters that will not be around and are beginning their own lives. Take a deep breath and let it out. Move forward and don't regret not accepting 2nd or 3rd place in your husbands life. That is not ok.
Thanks for all the support
Thanks for all the support and kindness. Yes it is a reminder of why my life will be soooooooo much better without all that in my face all the time. I know at some point it won't bother me anymore but right now it does. I'm workin' on it. It's a all going thru the whole letting go process.