We have recently been presented an offer we're finding difficult to refuse.

My FDH and BM bought a 3-bedroom 2 bath twin home/twindo/duplex (whatever you want to call it) and that is where FDH and I live now. BM's name is still on the house loan (she won't sign a quit claim bc it's helping her credit...that's a whole other topic). We've been updating things in the house with the intent to sell it in the next year or two.

My FDH and I just had our first child together in February. Let me try to fill in the backstory real quick since I know it's hard to remember all these stories on here. FDH raised SD6 as his own her first 4 years, then the real bio dad came back into the picture. FDH had a son with BM too, SS3. We have SS3 half the time. On week days that we have SS3, we still take SD6, but she goes to her bio dad's on the weekends now (since fall). Life has been a lot rougher since we stopped having SD6 as much.

We have SS3 (turns 4 in July) half the time, and we take SS's sister (who is 6) 1-2 days during the week. We discussed this weekend that we could start giving the skids some chores to do in return for allowance. You know, the whole teaching responsibility, work ethic, and also the value of money thing...

So I need help thinking of feasible chores that a 4 and 6 year old can do, that won't require a ton of direction. Here's my list so far:

FDH dropped off his son at BM's on Sunday night. She was wearing tight leggings and basically a see-through white camisole with a HOT PINK lacy bra hanging all out. FDH being a smarta** said, "Really? Hot pink on a Sunday?" and she said she's just been around the house cleaning and just "threw something on".