Hi everyone,
Like many of you, _Stepmonster_ proved to me to be an invaluable resource when I was first getting into this family-blending thing about 9 months ago. I still revisit it when I need to not feel crazy. However, I recently found these two resources that I wanted to share:
1) The National Stepfamily Resource Center
http://www.stepfamilies.info/
This is a great website, with many many links. Has info about support groups for stepfamilies all over the country.
2) _Becoming a stepfamily: Patterns of development in remarried families_
http://books.google.com/books?id=LxgTQvys5doC&printsec=frontcover&dq=bec...
I just read the intro while eating lunch and it was great. I think my FH will like this better than _Stepmonster_ b/c it is about all of us! I just purchased it.