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Submitted by stepoff on Wed, 06/16/2010 - 9:40am

Has anyone heard from Fedup45?

This is the woman who was blogging from a hotel room. Just wanted to find out if she's okay and back at home.

Anyone?

Something I've Noticed

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Submitted by stepoff on Tue, 06/15/2010 - 9:22am

There are many new members here recently. To all of the new members, I'd like to say Welcome!!

But I can't help but notice that there seem to be a lot of 'bait' blogs. These are blogs that are posted that seem either hypocritical, overly dramatized, or so unbelievable that they're ridiculous sounding. Now, perhaps these bloggers are sincere, but maybe they're not.

Therapy session ... and BM attending a party!?

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Submitted by stepoff on Mon, 06/14/2010 - 11:26am

DH and I went to our first appt with our family/marriage counselor on Friday. I was surprised to find DH doing most of the talking. Seems he has a lot to get off his chest. It wasn't anything negative regarding our marriage, though. We spent the entire 1 1/2 hours talking about SD21! I learned a LOT.

What to do?

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Submitted by stepoff on Fri, 06/11/2010 - 11:59am

I recently blogged about DH putting SD21 back on our health insurance plan (thanks to the new obama rules). She is eligible to be on our insurance until the age of 26. So we have another 5 years of this to go through.

I'm trying to figure out a process of handling her bills that come to our home.

The insurance began on May 1, and she has already been to the doctor twice (hypochondriac like BM). She's perfectly healthy but has to invent new ailments to gain sympathy votes. But that's another blog altogether.

New avatar

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Submitted by stepoff on Fri, 06/11/2010 - 8:56am

I felt like a complete slacker yesterday for not having chosen and attached an avatar to my blogs.

So I chose the fortune teller. Why? Because I can predict, yes PREDICT, every move that SD will make even before she makes it. I can SEE the outcome of her decisions even before it comes to fruition. I KNOW what is swirling around in her head even before she says it. I can FEEL the negativity ooze from her pores. Yes, the fortune teller fits perfectly.

Change of heart?

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Submitted by stepoff on Wed, 06/09/2010 - 1:55pm

After reading the letter that SD21 wrote to DH, I've been taking a close, hard look at our situation.

I asked DH to please, PLEASE tell me what I did to make SD21 so angry with me. He thought about it at work all day Monday and can't come up with anything. I've racked my brain to try to figure this out, too. Can't figure it out. The bitterness she expressed in her letter is very upsetting and very hurtful. So I'm trying to figure out a way to improve this situation.

Late night calls/texts ... Grrrrr!

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Submitted by stepoff on Tue, 06/08/2010 - 12:26am

SD21 likes to call/text DH during the night. I've talked with him about this, because I wake up every time she does it. He said that he would tell her to stop doing it unless it's an emergency. Now, I don't know what he or she considers an emergency but it must be different from my definition because she keeps doing it. It's my opinion that if it's after 10 p.m., unless she's in the emergency room at the hospital, it can wait until morning. Well, she did it again tonight. We had just fallen asleep when I was awaken to the sound of his phone vibrating on the nightstand at 1130.

Adult Skids ... input wanted

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Submitted by stepoff on Mon, 06/07/2010 - 8:30am

I think we need a new word to reference adult skids. When I talk to DH about his adult kids, I feel weird calling them his 'kids' because they're NOT kids anymore. Other than calling them his son and daughter, I don't even know how to refer to them. When I blog or reply to a blog, I feel weird because people might think that I'm referring to actual kids, not grown offspring. I don't want to get the wrong message across, which I think has happened in the past.

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