AAUUUGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!
I just wanna reach through the phone and strangle BM right now. DH told BM on Sunday when he dropped off SS that Tuesdays would be the only day he could talk to his son coz Wed & Thur he would be in class (online college courses)...So he called tonight and she started in on DH about the arrears. He told her he was waiting on his consultant money. Then she asked, "And then you'll be sending it in to child enforcement?" I wanted to say, "NO, we're going on a vacation to get away from your stupid ways!" DUH.
She also bitched coz DH was EARLY in dropping off Charlie (at 5:40pm) even though she said it was at 5:30pm...how do I know it was at 5:40? Because I have the drop off recorded on my phone and the timestamp is 5:39pm. So again, this woman is stupid enough not to be able to tell time. DH told her, "WEll, it's not like we would leave him there by himself." She came back with, "BUT IT's COMMUNICATION that you have to do...if you're going to be early, you HAVE TO CALL ME." Why? She doesn't answer the damn phone when he does call her, it goes to voice mail. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black. She said, "I don't want to have Ched worry where mommy is." Trust me, he doesn't even ask, and if he does, it's not like we tell him any lies...we tell him we don't know, which we don't.
I just really despise this woman and want to throttle her to no end. I feel so badly that my husband has to put up with her whiny ass stupidity whenever he just calls to talk to his son.
Okay, I feel better venting now.
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At least you feel better
At least you feel better now, but she is never going to change. Glad you can come here to vent or you would be going loopy.
Take my advise and learn to see the funny side of the stupidity of her, being mad just means she gets her way. Laugh at her like she is a child... you will feel so much lighter it is like and instant relief.
Get your husband to not talk back to her when he rings his son, let him ask to speak to Ched and if she starts talking... "Can i please speak to Ched?" and have him just repeat that until she gets the point. If she has shit to tell him tell her to write it down that way you will always have a copy of her crap for future evidence
Thanks Alwaysme...oh yeah, I
Thanks Alwaysme...oh yeah, I am SO glad I found this place to vent away...it is helping my sanity because I tend to dwell on the stupidity of life...and she ranks RIGHT UP THERE with Stupid!
I will give DH that advice to just keep asking to speak to Ched...usually he just does vulgar motions with his hands (as only a man would do when he's getting jerked around, If you know what I mean!)...last night I grabbed one of the ear pieces of his headset and listened to her whine. The AUDACITY of her stressing communications just baffles me to NO end...considering she's the one who NEVER communicates unless it's to tell hubby he's a worthless piece of shit that has no testicles (because I have them in a jar on a shelf) and he needs to step up to be a man, blah blah blah.
Again, thanks for the support! This place is a Godsend!
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