We officially have surgery scheduled. He will be getting tubs and adenoids removed as well as, checked to see if anything else could be causing his sleep apnea. His sleep apnea has officially been diagnosed he stops breathing 3 times every hour he is asleep. Well the doctors did a chest xray and he also has reactive airways disease so he will also being seeing a penologist. Prays and good vibes are much needed.

DH and I have decide to go talk to someone. We have communication issues. His family doesn't communicate and my family communicates a little too much. Any advice? Anyone been through this?

Things have been crazy since we got married. I feel like we have had no time to just talk it out (too much communication) and DH thinks we just make decisions then move forward. DH was working nights and now he is working days so hopefully that helps.

I just got a report from a mom at my SS's school that she saw SS holder a girl by her collar and growling in her face. Later with the same girl he was fighting over something and then had to sit out for awhile. Last week we got a report that he kicked a different little girl. BM said last time she wanted him in therapy it was because he was attacking her (he was 4 at the time). Well now BM wants him in therapy and in every after school program possible. I have no idea what is going on in the other home. I know his stepdad has gotten physically aggressive with me in the recent past.

BM brought up all of us (DH, me, BM, and her husband) going to therapy together. NO I personally have no interest in being in a room with either one of them. A therapist (therapist A) DH and I talk to recommend that DH join a therapy group for men abused by women. SS old therapist (therapist brought up group therapy for all of us. I am still shocked by it.