Really? This again?
BM is still pushing for group therapy. Her new tacit is to say it says we have to in the custody agreement. It doesn't it says SS has to go to therapy not all of us. I don't really understand what her obsession with all of us talking about our feelings is.
Thank god DH and I have saved up. We have lawyer and court money saved. I just have a feeling we will be in court soon. BM keeps saying the custody agreement say's things that it doesn't.
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Well, you know those COs are
Well, you know those COs are printed out with a 'special' type of ink that only BMs can see and read
I'd be telling BM that if she
I'd be telling BM that if she wants to have group therapy, she needs to find a group because DH and I are not it.
Feelings? You are a loon, BM, and I don't need therapy to work through that.
I would be pissed if I had to pay lawyer fees for stupid shit like this.
I have a feeling we will be
I have a feeling we will be back in court. She will say we are in contempt or court. (not sure if SM can be in contempt) But odds are BM will try. I am just tired of her crazy. Like does her life ever move on?
like outtahere says, YOU are
like outtahere says, YOU are not in contempt of anything because you are not a party to the dispute and, therefore, not obligated to the custody agreement
IF the CO says that precious must be in counseling and he is NOT, then potentially BOTH of his parents could be found in contempt - lol!!!
It says that SS must see the
It says that SS must see the therapist till the parents along with the therapist terminates therapy. The therapist terminated it. We submitted final payments. Speaking of which I think the therapist is doing insurance fraud. Some how 20% of her normal fee is $100 an hour. She charges $300 a hour with no insurance. So either I am really bad at math or something fishy is happening.
a lot of places will give up
a lot of places will give up to a 50% discount if paid cash or credit - they get $$ immediately as opposed to waiting for a check from the insurance, then waiting for it to clear.
the reverse is also true, some places will increase the charge for insurance, due to having to jump through hoops just dealing w/ the ins company - so they raise the amount the ins will pay so they feel justly compensated.
when you get the EOB, it should show the amount the insurance paid out to the therapist, and u'll be able to see if she actually charges $500/hr to the ins company.
I'll have to go find the last
I'll have to go find the last EOB but I can almost guarantee it was not 500 per hour. Our insure would not pay that.
Yeah, I have spent a lot of
Yeah, I have spent a lot of time with a lot of therapists and I have NEVER seen one who charged THAT much per hour.
No matter now, though since the order says it stops when the therapist terminates and the therapist terminated, right???
Correct so SS is done with
Correct so SS is done with therapy. BM wants him back in therapy we said ok but this time the therapist has to be in network. BM is freaking out and wants the old therapist back. The other thing that bother us was the therapist had nothing that was wrong with SS and nothing that was measurable that could be fixed. Plus it was play therapy and once she said to be that the session was great SS was silly and got to play the whole time. UMMM did I hear you correct I am paying a ton of money to play and be silly with him. I'll take him to a play place.
She thinks that a therapist
She thinks that a therapist is going to sit down and tell you two that you're all wrong, she's right, you need to do exactly what she says and that you're bad people for ever questioning her and expecting to keep to a court order since everyone knows that the court order is only for when the BM doesn't want something different from what it says.
They have in the past for
They have in the past for stupid things. The take her money knowing they will not win.