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Just a rant. BM why won't you just fuck off like SD has told you to do?
Little background: BM in and out SD's entire life. Last few years has only attempted contacted about 6 times or so but months in between. SD got fed up a few years ago and finally told BM to stay away from her and don't contact her anymore. A couple of weeks ago SD stated to me that she thinks she wants to see her mother, read previous blog. I told SD that it wasn't my deal and that she would need to discuss it with her father.
My stepdaughter has decided that after 2 years of her mother not wanting to be in her life, that she want's to see her mom.
BM has been in and out of SD's life for most of SD's life. For the last 4 years she has been out more than in and 2 years ago she was out completely except for a text message every 6-8 months. For the last 2 years BM has attempted contact maybe 6 times. All those times SD says she doesn't want to see her because she was never a mother to her. Last time BM tried to make contact was 4 months ago and SD told her she didn't ever want to see her again.
UPDATE TO: Do your kids or step kids take things to school they aren't suppose to take?
Read previous blog. SD gets home from school early today and this is how it plays out.
ME: Let me see your backpack and your coat.
SD: Why?
ME: Well I went to put clothes on your bed today, for you to put up, and noticed your camera isn't where it usually is. Since you have had that camera it has always been in that spot when your not using it. I'm just wondering if know where it might be.
SD: I don't have it. I didn't take it to school, I don't know where it is.
Do your kids or step kids take things to school they aren't suppose to take?
Got SD a good camera for her Bday. Told her she didn't need to take it to school because she is forgetful and I didn't want her to lose it. Bus comes to our house to pick up the kids. When it's cold I go outside and wait for the bus and holler at them. Bus driver isn't usually on time so I can't just have them go at a certain time. SD has a habit of waiting for me to go outside then going in her room and getting stuff she isn't suppose to take to school then trying to sneak it back in the house when she gets home.
Dh you can go to fuck off land and take disrespectful SD with you.
This kid doesn't listen to anything I say. I tell her to do something and she does it but then decides next time she does the same thing she doesn't want to do it right. I tell her what to do and she repeats the same behavior. I get tired of telling her so I let DH know. This ends up with him cussing at me telling me to stop being a bitch. Like this morning. I tell him that SD hasn't been listening to me and that I'm fed up. I tell him he can deal with her and that when she does it again I will keep telling him until he does something about it. He yells and says "fuck alright".
What the flippin flip just happened?? SD tells BM off last night so BM felt the urge to DRIVE by my house and tell me off haha!
I swear this bitch is so dumb. I'm outside getting something out of my car and went to check the mail. We live on a busy street so I don't pay attention to people driving past me. I hear honking from a couple hundred feet away and look up and see a familiar car. BM dum dum dummmmm. Stupid bitch!
Don't know how much longer I can go on like this. I HATE life sometimes!!
It seems like anything bad that can happen, happens all at once. It seem like no matter what I do it doesn't matter. Let's start with insurance. Stupid insurance company didn't get my paperwork in the data base so when I tried to go to the doctor this morning my insurance was denied so I had to cancel my appointment. I couldn't hardly afford the copay let alone the whole fee. Even though I have been going to this doctor for years, he decided not to see me because of my insurance status.
Off topic. Any at home remedies for back pain?
I have had upper back pain for a month and the last couple days it's gotten to the point where I can't sleep. I have tried ointments, heat, cold and nothing is working. I'm about to lose my mind.
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Do you ever keep money from your significant other? WHAT'S THE MOST YOU HAVE KEPT?
This post has been edited from original question that I just wrote.
Child support payment was more then expected.
Bm owes over $7000.00 in child support. About 2 months ago my DH got a letter stating Child Support Enforcement was filing a claim against her wages/other income. Usually when this happens she gets paid every other week and we end up getting about $138 every other week.
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