[edit] I've removed some information from this post for privacy reasons [edit]

I dropped Mr. Kate off at work.

...later he ended up walking home and he is ticked, understandably. I tell him I'm sorry (that he had to walk after working a full day, not necessarily because I did anything wrong) and ask him if there is anything I can do. He mumbles what I thought was 'I want to spend time with my daughter, so can you find something (for you) to do'. I decide his attitude is forgiveable and make plans to see a movie with a friend. When I tell him I might spend the night with my (female) friend, he says I'm an *$$hole because what he'd actually asked me was if I could spend time with his daughter, and take her out somewhere.

I haven't really decided how I feel about all of this yet. Just thought I'd share.