Mr. Kate told me that he loved me as much as he did his daughter.

I thought this milestone deserved its own entry.

During a recent fight about allowing his daughter to sleep in our room, Mr. Kate told me that she was first and foremost in his life and if I made him choose between us, he would pick her. I don't think I was upset with him putting her first so much as I was wondering how many times he was going to make me feel like crap by reminding me that whatever I did, I would never know what its like to be first in his life.

During another fight over the same stupid issue, I told him so-that he'd made me feel like crap, too. Well, we made up this morning, and he told me that he loved me as much as he did FSD.

Small victory.