BM moved out of her GF's home where GF lived with her parents. Apparently the parents are done with BM and they aren't happy with her lieng, cheating ways.

So BM now has her very own apartment. She has not given DH the address.

Now that BM has "no adults in the house", she can do whatever she wants. Her behavior has already been spinning out of control the past 6 months with frantic calls, texts, professions of love, professions of giving up her miniscule amount of custody of SS14, and now basically being kicked out of her lover's home.

So we predict that BM's home will no longer be a safe environment for SS. Before he had the grandma/grandpa watching him all day when he was left alone. They fed him. They took care of him. Plus they lived there and it was NOT a party house.

Now BM can do whatever she wants.

Next Friday begins SS14's first of three- two week visits with his mom. We are going to send him with a go-phone type cell phone to utilize in case of emergency, in case she doesn't come home by a certain hour, etc. But what can we do regarding finding out the address? We WILL have SS provide it to us when he arrives as I'm sure she'll try NOT to give it to us (for whatever odd reason she has).

Just looking for opinions. DH is stressing out. This apartment is also in a bad neighborhood and SS will be sitting there alone for the two weeks. (Of course, she states she doesn't work, but for some reason, she leaves the house every morning and returns at the end of the day...).