WHOA! What an asshole!!

I would make sure that your SS knows you are not upset with him...not his fault his dad's a dick. That reaction was TOTALLY uncalled for and disrespectful.

Next time he's looking for some sex be sure to tell him this 'bitch' is not giving it up.

Holy crap. That would be immediate divorce for me unless he consented to a medical appointment AND said medical appointment showed a brain tumor that affects behavior.

Your husband is an ass, both in his controlling behavior with his son and his venom for you.

Wow. You know something's wrong when the skid apologized. He obviously wasn't trying to get you into trouble and recognizes that his dad's behavior as a giant leap over the line.

Will his clothes be out on the lawn and new locks on the doors by the time he gets back?

I didn't think your comment warranted his reply. I mean, what's wrong with what you said? What's wrong with skids reply? Nothing! Damn, he needs to take a chill pill! Plot revenge now, id make his sorry ass even sorrier!

:jawdrop:

Speaking to me like that is a request to have your teeth rearranged!

Your DH is disgusting! How dare he speak to you like that?! Are you sure it's the first time he has done this? Second time would be grounds for divorce because this sort of disrespect doesn't stop!

There isn't much I've read on here that's made me this angry. That asshole you're married to needs a punch in the throat.

For your skid to have apologized, wow. He was trying to joke around and his father flew off the handle like a complete fucking asshole. And he realized how bad it was that he felt the need to apologize? That fuckwad needs to apologize to you and his son.

And screw leaving, I'd change the fucking locks and make him leave.

I would make it beyond clear that he just used his one time "oops I'm an asshole" card, and next time he is that disrespectful of you it will be the last. No matter what's going on in life, that's not an acceptable way to talk to your partner in life. If that spilled out, wonder what other thoughts stayed IN?

Well...there is one thing I would never do. Accept a man talking to me thus way. Nope. No way.

First off, let me say how sorry I am for you. Your DH's behavior is appalling and reprehensible. I was reading this and my husband asked me what was wrong because he saw the look of sadness on my face. He knew I was on STalk so I read him the post. His thought was perhaps something more is going on with your DH for him to snap like that. Nevertheless, he agrees with me that you should leave for a hotel. That type of talk seems beyond abusive to me. Has he ever been violent towards you? I learned from my first marriage that once the line is crossed and this type of behavior occurs, it gets worse. In my case, it started with name calling like this and ended up with me getting beat up and him going to jail for a week. I mean your DH called you a "stupid bitch" and called your kids "fucked up" over his kid joking for Christ's sake.
I hope your ok. I am concerned for you and SS's well being. Poor SS. I hope he doesn't blame himself for his fathers vile behavior. What a great example to his son on how to talk to women (insert sarcasm).
Please take care.
Amber

ETA- who cares if the kid combed his hair forwards? What's the big deal? What a controlling asshole