Normally, I dont give two sh*ts about what BM says about anything, She has despised me and is STILL mad at me over something that happened 14 YEARS AGO In HIGH SCHOOL! (Her, DH and I all went to school together) But what came out last night has just litterally made me sick to my stomach. SD10 was in one of her "moods" yesterday and last night. DH finally sat her down and talked to her, and SD10 just lets it all out. Aparently, the last time they saw BM, this woman told SD10 that "no one wanted her and she would be better off to kill herself" DH asked SD7 about this conversation, (SD7 had been in the other end of the house, and didn't hear the conversation DH, SD and I were having.) DH asked SD7 if anything had happened at BM's last time. SD7 got this scared look on her face, started crying and said "Mommy said that SD10 needed to die and no one wanted her. And so did her girlfriend." What kind of a person DOES THIS TO A KID? I am up in arms, and have been on the phone with SD10s councellor, our atty, all morning. SD10 is just, well, I dont really know HOW to describe how she is ATM. Lost, scared, doesn't know what the hell to think. DH is beside himself, and after we got the Skids calmed down and off to bed, I told DH that I have NEVER had the hatred and disdain toward ANYONE that I do toward BM. I don't even hate MY EXH that bad, and he was an abusive asshole. This woman is beyone f***d up. She can't do what she supposed to to, wont follow the rules, and yet, somehow, this is NEVER her fault. DH and I are biding our time, waiting for her to FINALLY hang herself, and honestly, I hope its soon.