BM has been very restrictive with the parenting time that BF can have. They still do not have a court order or a signed agreement but they finally go to mediation this Sunday.

My BF emailed BM the information about the mediator over 3 weeks ago and we have heard nothing from her since. We see the little man every Sunday for 4 hours. We found out last weekend that BM is not even staying at her house (that she got in the divorced and agreed to sell and said she was putting on the market this month). BM has been staying with her BF. The only things we know about the BF is that he smokes like a chimney and he's young - she's 37.

BM lives about 66 miles north of us. Its pretty much a straight shot up a highway, 70 mph all most all the way. So BM emails this evening, asking if BF could pick up BS at another location - stating its 20 miles closer for him. Wrong, its more like 60 miles from us (more east than north) and then we would have to drive another 30 plus miles on the freeway (totally different route than we take to BM's house) to BF's parents house where he has his parenting time because BM will not allow him to take his son to our own home, claiming its too far away from his mother. So how is this closer?

BM tells BF that raising their child is financially hard and wants child support but will not cooperate in trying to come up with a figure that is reasonable and acceptable to both of them. Funny, BM gets income from a trust from her father's estate plus she makes more money that BF. BM bought a brand new car in October 2007, flew to Utah in January 2008, wanted to take a 3 week trip to Japan this June (that was squashed because BF will not sign for baby to get a passport), bought new furniture, bought a laptop, the list goes on and on and I am sure we don't know the half of it.