Satan (BM) has a roommate (M). M has a boyfriend (R) and a daughter (D). The four of them live together in one house. This information will be important, later!

First of all, the day after Mother's Day, BM messaged me on Facebook. This was the conversation...

Satan:
I hope all had a wonderful Mother's Day! !!!!!

Me
We did! Thank you
How are you? SD14 is wondering if you had started rehab

Satan
I'm ok! YES I did

Me
very cool.. I'm proud of you

Satan
Why I will just FUCK it up like I do everything else

Me
You know what? It's a CHOICE.. you have to decide what is the most important thing to you and keep at it. Miracles happen, when you pray and try hard, believe it or not

Satan
I've tried that and it NEVER has worked for me. It seems like the harder I try the the further back I go

Me
then you give up too quickly

Satan
No I try for weeks, months even years and the end result is the same

Me
It took me and Hubby five years to get the girls in home.. The only time we gave up, or took a break was when SD14 said she wanted us to.. But we were always ready to fight, and prove our worth to the people who needed us to. And it was worth every second

Satan
I'm tired of 5 steps forward@
And 100 steps backward

Me
then you have to choose to keep fighting for what you want or not

Satan
What I want In my life I will NEVER have

Random Satan Family Member (SHE PUT ME IN A GROUP CHAT??? WITH HER FAMILY??? WHY???)
Everyone struggles in life. The people who succeed are the ones who have their priorities straight and don't give up. If you want something bad enough, the only thing stopping you is yourself

I STOPPED MESSAGING THEN. I didn't want to chat with her family.. Didn't really want to chat with Satan, either, but I felt like a little bit of encouragement might go a long way. (Note to self: It is not your job to encourage BM!) Later SDs' Oldest Sister messaged her mother (through the group chat)

OS
Mom why the heck are you gonna bring our family members into this they don't need to be involved and especially aunt D you need to stop putting ur life out on blast and learn everyone has problems not just you everyone struggles in there life at some point and I'm tired of you being so negative I can't take it no more. I just don't know how to help you anymore.

NOW ONTO THE STORY ABOUT THE ROOMMATE, AND BOYFRIEND.

SD14 is now SD15!!! She had her birthday earlier this week. Poor thing, it sucked! SD12 was bound bent and determined to ruin it!

After all the birthday festivities, I got text from a random number.

SATAN:
HAPPY 15TH BIRTHDAY SD15!!!!!! I love you!!! Satan (she actually put her real name, not Mom. she finally gets it.. she isn't mom anymore!)

I begged someone to use their phone long enough to wish you a happy birthday! I hope you have a good day!!!!!!

I'm truly homeless and have nothing!!! I'm just glad that you and SD12 are well taken care of!!!!!!!!!

Me
Yes, I think messaguing your daughter on her birthday to give her a guilt trip is a good idea. Please STOP trying to fuck up her childhood!!! She won't see this message, btw.

To whoever loaned Satan your phone to let her do this, please don't do it again. She doesn't have the right to do this to a little girl. It's sick!!!!!

Satan (random number)
Satan wasn't trying to give a guilt trip she was just letting her know what is going on and wishing her a happy birthday. She said she will never forget the girls and she will never contact them again. She doesn't want to cause trouble for anyone. She LOVES them enough to know that they are better off without her in their lives.

Me
No, they afre better off with her healthy and being productive in their lives. If she's ever willing to do that and stable, they'd love to hear from her!! they love her.

BUT they are young girls, have gone through enough and don't need to worry about where she is. If we'd (Satan and I) never had this conversation before, I'd believe it was a faux pas. Since she's been TOLD how much it hurts them thagt they can't help her, and she still does it, that just makes her cruel to them

Satan (random number)
She is getting help. She wants them to be happy and healthy. She doesn't want them to worry about her. She wasn't trying to be cruel.

She's crying because you think she's trying to be cruel to them when she was just letting them know what is going on.

Me

THEY DON'T NEED TO KNOW WHAT'S HAPPENING IN HER LIFE... it's not right for them to keep being hurt over her mistakes.

Satan (random number)
She knows and she will not contact you again until she is better. She said she only wants what is BEST for them. She asks that you take good care of them!!!!!

Me
Thank you, And of course I do my best to take care of and to spoil them.

Satan (random number)
She said to tell you THANK YOU for being there and loving them unlike her, someone who doesn't know how to love.

I THINK OF MYSELF AS AN AMATEUR SUPER SLEUTH! So, I took this number, and put it in my Facebook Search. It came back to R (Roommate's boyfriend).

I called M (roommate) and let her know that Satan and R had spent the evening texting me, and asked her to please talk to R. I don't want to have to change my cellphone number (I would have to update it with 13+ doctors, and about 150 other people.)

So, M and D (who was out with her) rushed home to talk to R. R had NO IDEA that Satan had used his phone. He had laid down to take a nap (works 3rd) and Satan had gone into his bedroom, and was messing around. He told her to get out, and she must of taken the phone with her!

That's right! BM has taken to texting me and pretending to be someone else.

Really, the crazy doesn't bother me. I've been diagnosed as Bi-polar and I have PTSD, so the crazy makes me feel UNcrazy! It's a nice break!

And, try as she might, BM doesn't get to contact SDs. If she does something worth mentioning, I mention it to SDs, in passing. (IE: I told SD15 "Satan texted me to wish you a happy birthday!) If they have questions, I'll answer them. That's it, though.