The BF (boyfriend) is in the dog house today. I am just getting so sick of him letting the ex-wife (BM) push him around with no regards too OUR plans. It started yesterday but today was just the icing.

Yesterday they(BF and BM) have a standing time of 5 pm to make the weekly switch with the kids. She txt'd him at 4:37 pm to said that she was in another city (an hour away) but her fiance was home so it was his call as to when he dropped the kids off or not, she would be home around 5:30. BF was all about dropping them off at 5:30pm but I told him no. What if we had plans? we kind of did but they were flexible. She should have called earlier and there was no reason that the Fiance couldn't watch his future step kids for 30 mins. So we dropped them off at 5pm.

Today is why the BF is in the dog house. Their son SS3 has a doc appt. in a another city tomorrow. They have known about it for awhile. He and I had plans to ride down together so that I could go do some shopping for his kids (they have birthday's coming up and I have gifts cards from xmas to use) while they were in the doc office. He called me this morning and said that I might as well go to work tomorrow. BM called him and couldn't get a hotel room in Madison (which was a lie, I checked there are at least 3 hotels with rooms and one that was full. I think she just couldn't afford one with out BF) Originally she wanted to go down the night before like that done last year, but BF wanted to drive down the morning of to save money. So now she wanted to car pool. He agreed to carpool with her but didn't tell her about our plans at ALL. When he called me I said that I was still going and she was going to have to ride in MY car with me if she wanted to car pool. So he had to call her back and tell her that so now she probably thinks that i am going JUST because she is.

I am not changing my plans just because she doesn't plan ahead. Plus she has always been trying to break me and BF up, so I don't want her alone in a car with him for 3 hours. Not that any of it works, but she tells him lies about me - which is weird because she doesn't know me. But it wouldn't stop her from trying. I have not seen or talked to her for like a month so when he told her that I was going she asked is I would be ok riding in a care with her, and she laughed she he said yes. I think she thinks that I am afraid of her, but I am not she just uses everything I say and do against me so I avoid her. But I am not planning on talking to her and if she tries to talk to me I will blow her off of be short with her. Tomorrow is going to be a very uncomfortable day for her, i just hope she knows that. I am not going to pretend to like her or be all fake.