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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Mon, 10/28/2019 - 7:44am

For an update my baby came early so my husband WAS there for the birth! He has not taken any time off work yet and at this point I don't know if he will. I asked him if he was avoiding being home and he says he's just very busy and stressed.  

I had an easy pregnancy, a pretty smooth birth, easy breastfeeding, quick recovery and now we have a thriving healthy baby. I'm very fortunate.

Husband doesn't care about birth

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Mon, 10/14/2019 - 8:21am

My husband has a business trip the day after my due date. It's 3 days. He also planned to see SD the weekend before my due date for a family get together that's a pretty far away. I'm not comfortable traveling that distance from my hospital that close to my due date so I'm not going. My parents will be with me and I have some supportive neighbors so I won't be alone. It's like he totally forgets when I'm due. If I go into labor while he's with SD I'm worried he's going to bring her to the hospital. I don't want a kid there while I'm in labor and giving birth.

Activities with SD

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Tue, 10/03/2017 - 9:00am

SD is boring. She would rather watch a video of another kid playing with toys than play herself. Entertaining her is a 24/7 chore when we have her. She's 9 so she thinks anything an adult is interested in is so uncool. DH and I are into geocaching and so is my family. Geocaching is so very uncool but be have fun with it. We went together with my parents this weekend and the next time DH has SD he wants to do it with her. DH saw my dad and me sharing wonderful times and he wants the same with his daughter. The only difference is SD is not going to like this.

Eloping without SD.

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Tue, 08/15/2017 - 2:35pm

My FH and I are getting married shortly, eloping just us alone. SD9 likes me a lot. BM is passive when it comes to conflict, she is just difficult but does not really start drama. With her it's all money, that's all she wants from my FH. Her goal is he pays the max $ and get to see SD the bare minimum. The main issues she causes are preventing him from getting SD for her full visitation times. BM calls and reminds SD that she has a party or activity or family member in the hospital and therefore she must cut visitation short.

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