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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Fri, 08/06/2021 - 8:46pm

I know I'm being petty but my husband is so annoying. 

We have 2 little kids, that means 2 car seats. 

We see SD14 sporadically, and when we do it's only when my SIL picks her up. SD14 only agrees to see us when SIL tags along. 

My husband goes from one day complaining about how much kids cost to spending over $600 on a 2nd set of car seats that are narrower... So SD can be more comfortable in the car.

Kids are money pits part 2

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Wed, 08/04/2021 - 9:20am

I think Lt Dad was exactly right in my previous blog about when there isn't much affection, relationship or visitation then sending CS becomes the only parental contribution for a NCP and therefore the only thing they have to be proud of. It's true he has very little influence over SD14 and she avoids seeing us or making a real connection. She has been PASed for years but puts on a fake affection show. 

Kids are money pits

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Thu, 07/29/2021 - 9:11pm

My husband has started this habit of complaining about how expensive our kids are to anyone who will listen. He calls them money pits and like owning boats. He says it in a joking not joking tone but don't think he realizes that it's not pretty.

Only the best for princess SD

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Mon, 07/19/2021 - 12:46pm

No matter the situation SD14 always determines what the best of anything is and claims it for herself. 

We go to the beach or pools and she takes the best towel (usually mine!) even though she picked out her own towel. 

Ever since she was little at amusement parks she always had to pick the front or best seat and if we were there with kids her age she would make them take the less desired seat. My in laws and husband were always so proud of her for being "assertive." I always thought she was being a spoiled brat.

Little miss victim

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Wed, 07/14/2021 - 8:51am

BM has never made any allegations of abuse (thank God) but she often acts like she is afraid of DH... But only if her new husband is around. 

SDs new passion is tennis, she wanted to do swimming but BM says it was too expensive which was a ploy to get DH to pay for it. Anyway she sent nasty text messages but once DH called her to discuss it she was very timid on the phone. I used to think that she was some kind of bipolar or borderline and this was just part of her mood swings or manipulation. Stupid regularly go from a raging B to acting timid and afraid of my DH. 

Favorites, again.

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Mon, 07/12/2021 - 1:46pm

Just venting.

I'm so freaking sick of this competition for being the favorite, SD will not let it go and SIL encourages it.

SIL called my DH the other day to tell him she was going to a city in my home state. I'm not sure why since it's not a wonderful tourist destination or anything, it's a decaying industrial city with a violence and drug problem, but a small nice downtown. She wanted us to come. Perhaps so I could be their tour guide? Or perhaps so DH could bring his wallet?

My DH is a BEC

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Mon, 05/31/2021 - 3:31pm

(B*tch eating crackers)

My last post made me realize that I hate everything that my husband does lately. He's just so goddamn positive and optimistic. He acts as though he is living a perfect life and has a perfect family with me our kids and SD. We hardly ever see SD so he's kind of in denial about that but I can't get over the fact that he is happy and I am so not. I've come to realize his happiness comes at my expense, we don't get happy together.

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