Well BM supposedly went into labor last night. This makes number 6 with father #6 and the father is in jail . I hate that DH's CS will now be used to take care of this new one and SS8 will have even less than he does now. I hate that she lives off the system and has no desire to change anything. I hate that her oldest son, her brother and now baby daddy#6 are all in jail and that SS is growing up thinking that this is "normal and OK". But most of all, I hate that I am jealous beyond all measure that she is having another baby and I can't even have one.

At what point do you stop helping. I'm tired of my life being interrupted to do things for SS8. I'm not talking about doing things with and for him when we have him every weekend, I'm talking about all the things I'm expected to do for him when he is in BM's custody. BM doesn't have a car and hasn't had one in 2 years so she's been mooching off of friends for rides everywhere. She has now burned most of her bridges and her "friend pool" is drying up. DH has been picking up the slack when it comes to picking SS up from school and taking him to his baseball games.

BM hasn't worked a day in over 5 years and lives off the government. Section 8 pays her rent, Medicaid provides free healthcare, food stamps pay for her groceries, boyfriend on disability provides free childcare and DH's child support pays for her fun. WTF!!!!! I'm so sick and tired of DH and I working our butts off to provide all of the above for our family and knowing that she is sitting on hers while my tax dollars enable her. And now yesterday BM tells us that she is pregnant again and due any day.