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Today is the first day that I cried

schrob01's picture

since my DH has been gone. I feel very alone & pregnant right now. I have been pretty strong & able to make decisions w/out being emotional about them, knowing that they are for the best but I believe that DH's issues run so much deeper than what appears to be the problem. This a serious Co-Dependant/Enabler relationship he has w/his daughter & his mother & I know that there is nothing i can do about it.

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Stick's picture

I'm sorry you feel so alone. I think, I'd like to give you some of my mom's advice that she used to give to me when I was really down. And that is...

CRY!! Cry it out. Don't stop yourself and don't feel bad. Cry as hard and as long and as much as you like. Baby yourself. Put on a sad movie and cry. Listen to your favorite sad songs and cry. Eat ice cream and cry. Turn on the shower and let the water wash away your tears.

Get it all out and you will feel so much better. And then you will have strength again to carry on.

I'm sorry and am sending hugs and prayers your way.

Crizzle's picture

I am sorry you are having hard times. (((huggie))) Read my signature. You should find this song and listen to it and make it your "gettin through it" song. You can hear it for free on playlist.com

"If your going through hell, keep on going, don't slow down, if you're scared, don't show it, you might get out before the devil even knows you're there" -Rodney Atkins

Abigail's picture

Being pregnant makes you emotional anyway without all this mess to deal with. I am so very sorry. If possible, try to get your focus on the new baby and all the happy things you'll be doing with him/her. Maybe decorate the baby's room, read parenting books, etc. Do you have family or friends to help? No one should be alone at a time like this.

"Evil Stepmothers aren't born, it comes with the territory"