rock bottom and digging
So last week my father in law interviend and told dh that ss23 had to GO. My dh was actually convinced for a minute. ss23 did not come home Thursday night, stayed with "friends" and failed to come home before we left for work on Friday afternoon. Friday night dh was all set to tell him he had to get out until ss23 went on and on about his new "friends" and how hard he was trying to find a full time job. Dh decided to NOT to tell him he had to go because he was "trying so hard" LMAO So, saturday night, I had to leave for a few hours and decided to unplug the internet, since that's all he does is live on the internet. ss23 called dh AT WORK and cried that I unplugged the internet and how mean I am, etc. I can't even mention this brats name anymore without ww3 breaking out. I have hit rock bottom and started to dig. DH then tells me that I only want the kid out because I hate him. When I try to explain that it's not ss23 I hate, it's his behavior and lack of responsibility, I'm verbally abused (something I DARE not do to darling ss23) and told I am a horrible, unfeeling, uncaring person. I have come to the conclusion that i work to pay the bills so ss23 doesn't have to and can continue on his free ride. News flash, I'm not buying groceries this week and will eat out. Let him find his own damned food!!!!!
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"You dont like my child" WOW
"You dont like my child" WOW guilty daddy mantra from the book of guiltzilla 4:7
I have a 23 year old bioson (Awesomeson) and he's been working full time, sometimes 2 jobs since he was 17!!!
Yes I do hate your son.
Yes I do hate your son. There. I said it. Watcha going to do about it? Actually I am beginning to find you equally as unattractive because you fold to your adult son. May I remind you there are 18 yr olds out there in the military keeping us and your adult son safe? And how does your son repay their scrifice? Tell me one unselfish thing your son has done in the last week for us? Washed cars? No. Done the dishes? No. Cleaned his room? No. Done laundry? No. But he IS looking for a job. Well whoopdy doo. Lots of H/School kids are looking for work and FINDING it.
Where am I going? Out to dinner.
***standing ovation***
***standing ovation***
My Military son is 18 AND
My Military son is 18 AND only a resident. He is off defending a country he isn't even a citizen of. New Zealand citizen, can live in Australia without a visa and a Green Card carrying member of the US Army.
Thank goodness for OUR kids!
Thank you for your daughters service
Dh and I are both Vets. Ss23
Dh and I are both Vets. Ss23 was rejected by the military. Don't ask. *sigh* our bio kids 20 and 18 both work full time and go to college full time. Ss23 is a lazy monster bm created.
Dh and I are both Vets. Ss23
Dh and I are both Vets. Ss23 was rejected by the military. Don't ask. *sigh* our bio kids 20 and 18 both work full time and go to college full time. Ss23 is a lazy monster bm created.
I think if I were in that
I think if I were in that situation, I'd leave. Your situation is just the pits. Lazy freeloader ruining your life, as if you didn't have enough to deal with work and everything else, then there's this loser in your face.
I wish you could just pack your car and move on. I feel your helplessness with this worthless ss who doesn't give a flying fig what you think or do. You're in his way of being a complete mooch of the old man.
Sorry.....wish it could be different for you.