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Submitted by schambers on Sat, 06/04/2011 - 9:47pm

To recap: ss23 whom was living off of us was told to move out 6 weeks ago by dh. For the last month we haven't heard from him (and I was happy lol). Dh's birthday was Thursday and all the other Kids either called or came by to wish DH a happy birthday, all that is except for ss23.

My confession: I guess I am evil

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Submitted by schambers on Fri, 05/13/2011 - 9:32pm

Bs20 if finally home after a long stay in the hospital due to major health issues which are no fault of his own. We made hm leave college so he could rest and recover and take care of himself. Yesterday at the market he looked upset. I asked him what was wrong and he told me, mom I'm so mad, all dad did yesterday was talk sh*t on how YOU ran ss23 off.

ungrateful brats

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Submitted by schambers on Sun, 05/08/2011 - 11:03pm

It was a wonderful day today with all 3 of my bkids wishing me a happy Mother's day and spending time with me. I have told them not to get me gifts as 2 of them are in college and try very hard to make ends meet without assistance from dh or I.

When will the daddy guilt end?

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Submitted by schambers on Wed, 04/27/2011 - 5:53pm

So 2 weeks ago ss23 finally got the hell out. We didn't hear from him for 2 weeks...2 peaceful glorious weeks, there was no fighting or arguing in the house and it is cleaner than it has been in the last 9 months. Then the storm came....ss23 tells daddy he misses him but hasn't contacted him because of me blah blah and he's sick cause he doesn't have any blankets etc where he's living blah blah.....of coarse dh blames me once again because I made it so unbearable for ss23 to live with us. Before I could respond, whe words of a wise paramedic co worker hit me....DNR... Do not respond.

I'm FREEEEEEE

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Submitted by schambers on Sat, 04/23/2011 - 2:18pm

ok, so 30 days ago DH gave ss23 the decree that if he did not have a full time job in 30 days he was going to buy him a bus ticket and ship him back to his mother in Tenn. Well, before we could do so, we got a call last week that out Son, 19 was in the hospital in critical condition. The night before, ss23 went out with his "friends" and never called, knowing the rule that he is to call if he is not going to be home. The next morning we got the call for son, 19, who for his age has serious medical issues. we left for the 6 hour drive to get to son 19.

rock bottom and digging

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Submitted by schambers on Tue, 03/22/2011 - 2:00pm

So last week my father in law interviend and told dh that ss23 had to GO. My dh was actually convinced for a minute. ss23 did not come home Thursday night, stayed with "friends" and failed to come home before we left for work on Friday afternoon. Friday night dh was all set to tell him he had to get out until ss23 went on and on about his new "friends" and how hard he was trying to find a full time job.

Rules need not apply....

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Submitted by schambers on Sat, 02/19/2011 - 12:09pm

Well since Darling ss323 works SO hard at his 10 hour a week job, he seems to think that he needs to sleep till noon when he is not working. My DH and I have set forth the rule that he is to be up, dressed and moving by 10am on the days his sorry ass doesn't work. One reason being since he thinks he is too good to take the bus to work and DH has to get up early to take his sorry ass to work (DH and I work 2nd shift. We get off work at 1am, to bed by 3 and have to get up at 8 to take his ass to work)so WE don't get to sleep in, why in the hell should he.

The human species is the only species that doesn't eat other mother's young....

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Submitted by schambers on Fri, 02/18/2011 - 4:13pm

After doing some reading, it's nice to know that I am not alone in the step battle, as I originally thought I was. DH has always been over protective of me and super suportive, that is, unless darling ss is involved. I have heard everything from you hate the kid (ss is 23) because he's just like me (he's nothing like his father.