What a week. I should be happy, I guess, but my head is just spinning. A little background: SD21 lived with SO and me and my children for a while. She was spoiled, but we did get along good at times. She would even say I was her best friend. But I dealt with disrespect, a vulgar mouth in front of my BD10, laziness, lies, etc. She had a temper tantrum in July and has since trashed me and lied about me to anybody that will listen, even on social media.

SD16 has followed suit and hates me just because her sister does. They have both called SO a sperm donor on Twitter.

Oh, God forgive me. After hearing all the hate that SD21 and SD16 are spewing on Twitter and FB about SO, me and my BKs, I lost it. I posted a status on FB and called them out. I said that if they were going to use social media to lie and hurt my family, I would call them out EVERY time. I know I shouldn't have and all my friends probably think I've flipped and I'm a drama queen, but DAMN! I've never known people SO hateful! It's beyond my realm of comprehension.

The last time SO talked to his two oldest daughters, they both told him that he was dead to them. After all the conversation he had with BM (via text) Saturday regarding therapy (which he refuses), it got pretty ugly. Of course, BM started attacking me, and telling him he had chose my children and me over his own flesh and blood.

So, last Friday BM sends SO a text saying that if he doesn't start paying for SKs cell phones and car insurance, that she is going to take him back to court.

Yesterday, she text him and asked if he would be willing to go to therapy with her and the kids. (She also says that maybe her DH and I can be bought into the therapy at a later date. Uhhhh...hell no. I'm disengaged, and sticking to it.)