I usually don't have complaints with SO when it comes to his kids. He sees them for what they are, he's not in denial. He probably gives them less credit than I do.

But today he asked me if SD21 had contacted me anymore, and I told him no.

I told him that I really felt like she wanted me to apologize, too, but, I really don't feel like I should have to apologize to her for telling her that she was not going to disrespect her father in my house. He agreed that he felt I had nothing to apologize for.

I talked a little while longer about my feelings, and then asked him what he thought. He said, "I'm scared to even say what I think and feel because you get so offended when I try to talk to you about SD21." Huh??? Wtf???

So, then, yes, I got offended. He said I was just proving his point, but damn, he just insulted me before even trying to talk to me. He didn't even give me a chance.

I may disagree with him sometimes on the topic of his kids, but I don't view that as a "fight"...we can disagree without fighting.

This probably doesn't even make sense, I just need to vent. And drink. And cry. I wish some of you girls lived closer so you could have a glass with me.

SD isn't even here, and still the root of our problems. Just the mention of her name....