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Update from the talk with DH

sandy1234's picture

Went very well!

So basically, here's what happened:

The hearing for DH to get full/primary custody of SS is in 2.5-3 months(which we have been waiting on to start having children). We also just purchased a home together Smile He said he would be happy if "it" happened right now/wants it to "happen" before the end of the year, at the latest. So we agreed that we would play it by ear and "stop preventing" here soon-both very excited during this talk. He was getting all sweet and loving about it-totally cute. Calling our future daughter by the name we decided on previously.. Yes, so very happy. We both have the mindset of "not taking out the BC just yet, but we will soon. If it happens before then then YAY and if not, then it will be soon and we will be all that more prepared." I also told him that I wouldn't tell him when I would take the BC out, but that, of course, it would be when we both had acknowledged it was a good time.

Both very enthusiastic. I'm even more excited than I was before, but in a calm/accepting way. Idk how to explain it lol Glad we talked about it though! So, within the next 5 to 6 months ladies!! Biggrin

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sandy1234's picture

Aww congratulations Smithy! Smile

I am so thrilled! Ear to ear smiles thinking about it-so much excitement already and we just had the last official talk before "it's time"