My boyfriend has a 7 year old son. Recently his mother took off and he is living with us. Together we have a daughter l. She was only a few months old when his son came to live with us. So not only was is stressful being a new mom but now I had no choice but to take care of his son too. Im doing everything. I get him ready for school, drive him to school, take my daughter to the babysitter, then go to work. When I get home I'm so exhausted and his son is so demanding of our time. He is struggling in school so we have to spend many hours every day helping him. I have started to take my anger out on not only him but his dad. I didn't want this. I wasn't even asked how I felt about this. I don't feel any love for his kid I just don't. I feel he is a burden in my life and I can't even enjoy my daughter because he requires so much attention. I know this situation is not his fault he is just a kid but I feel many times I need to leave. The worst part is he has so many problems. He has adhd, still wets his pants, makes messes all the time, never helps at all, and is very lazy. I'm hoping there is someone out there who is in the same situation