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Submitted by saffron1 on Fri, 04/25/2014 - 6:02pm

All my posts seem to be about BM and my expectations of SO. I am absolutely rubbish at dealing with the fact that my boyfriend, the person I love will always be in contact with his ex. It breaks my heart that he was married and had kids with someone else. There I said it..

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Submitted by saffron1 on Fri, 04/25/2014 - 6:28pm

Thank you Smile I probably just sound like a moaner lol, because all the women on this site go through the same, and many a lot worse... and I know people see it as we picked this, but we didn't. I loved my SO within weeks of knowing him, and by the time I knew he even had children I'd fallen from him. In hindsight I probably wouldn't be in this position, I'd have avoided meeting him to stop myself from being so in love, but in such a difficult position. I don't know if I will ever get over the fact that another woman gave him his first baby, first marriage, first shared home, and most of all first love. My SO's ex wife treated him awfully though, she was also the first person to pretend a baby was his, cheat on him, divorce him.. You're right, and most the time I think I have learned to come to terms with it, and then I get a moment like this...

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Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Fri, 04/25/2014 - 7:38pm

I hear you! I feel like this slut will never be gone, even though she tells me I'm in the "home stretch". I hate that she is in his life and wedged in like a sliver under a finger nail.