I was at soccer and BM did not have money for pictures so she asked my DH if she could mail the money in and I said the form said money needed the same day of pictures. But I went and talked to the picture guy and he told me she could mail her money in just fill out a form today, since he was already getting pictures done because of DH and I. So I went over to BM we will call her "Kim" So I went over to Kim and said "Kim" I talked to the photographer and he said you could mail your money in just fill out a form today, and I went and got her a form and asked her if she needed a pen and she said Yes, so I got her a pen from my car!!! It was great I am sure she does not want to talk to me but I feel soooo much better making her talk to me or she would have to ignore me infront of her son and my DH and she is not about to do that because she thinks she is the sane and nice one in the picture, so when SS game was over I went over to say bye to her because it is her weekend, and I asked her if she wanted us to keep his shirt so we would have it for the game this week and she asked me if his other shirt was in his soccer bag, so I gave DH the other shirt and he gave me the soccer shirt, we had SS change shirts because we have custody and BM lives an hour away so I did not want his shirt an hour away this week when he has a game. I said I will wash his socks, she said yeah the ones he sat in, because he did not want to play, so me pushing my luck continued the conversation with Kim and I said I was you two, her and DH, giving it a good shot to get SS to play, he did not make it easy, I said I bet you are fuming on the inside and she said yeah, I told SS that maybe he will play the next game and she said hope so, I said I am glad that you two, her and DH, are going to make SS come to the games and watch even if he does not want to play, because I do not want to teach him that it is ok to quit, she just shook her head, I know she hates me being around her, she thinks I ruined her family, but I enjoy making her talk to me, I do not feel so nervious when we can actually communitate in a civil manner, much better than this winter when I would say bye Kim and she would laugh and walk away, she is a bitch when noone is watching but today she either had to be civil or look like the bitch she is to the rest of the world watching today. So the question, do I like this women of am I sooo happy about today because I know the last thing she wants to do is talk to me, the women she feels runied her life, took her man and is now raising her son??? I am confused!!!