I am the invisible woman. Don't even say hi or goodbye. I don't want to be in my home when they are here. This is never going to change. It doesn't upset me - I don't want a relationship with them, it's too late for that now, but it angers me that they think they can come to my home and act as if I am an interloper, while watching my cable, eating my food, thinking they have a god given right to use my BS video games.

SO called them out for it - it 'got better' for a while. I say got better, it was actually just them making a point of saying hi for the sake of it, after which I instantly became the invisible woman again.

SO has realized I resent them coming here. I'm past caring, not even trying to deny it. If he tries to bring them up in conversation I don't acknowledge anything he is saying about them, I just look at him blankly then change the subject. The situation is making me hard hearted.