Christmas Plans and how this year I took charge
I am a BM. Oh yes, I have custody of my son who is 10. The sperm donor is very sporadic with visitation (as in the last time my son saw dipshit it was in September) I am not a crazy BM. In fact whenever dipshit asks to have my son i normally say sure, unless we have plans and then we figure out a different date. I do not talk with dipshit. He was physically abusive so he contacts me through my DH. So this year dipshit wants my son for several days including Christmas eve and Christmas day.
Instead of worrying when my son would be back so we could have our Christmas (i do have 2 other children with DH to consider) I have decided that Christmas is coming early this year! I am completely excited too! I dont have to worry about whos house to go to (in laws, my moms, etc.). I've already told the kids that i contacted Santa and asked if we could have our gifts early so we can celebrate together. The kids are excited too!
On top of that, I wont have to worry about the skid(s) ruining Christmas!!!! SOOOO EXCITED!!!! lol 
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It is so much better that
It is so much better that way! I do the same with BS8. I know ex see's any holiday or important time as a power play moment, so I just pick a different day. As I am the only person from my family in this country it is even easier! This year, for the first time, I have an issue in my parents visiting for NYE, but they understand and we will figure something out!
Im really thinking that this
Im really thinking that this will be a tradition, so i dont have to worry about the skids! lol