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waiting on these results is killing me

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Sat, 10/19/2013 - 3:21pm

My bio father just got swabed Thursday. I was swabed Mon. They told us it would take 2 business days. But the problem is I have to pay the whole thing off to get the results. So its the waiting game. Ugh

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Sat, 10/19/2013 - 3:41pm

I know your right. Dh told me last night that since he is doing the test he is interested so at least I got that. I know it will be a process b/c his wife from my understanding is struggling with it since its possible that he was seeing both my mom and her at the same time.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Sat, 10/19/2013 - 6:30pm

Huh what are u talking about

Eta: if you are referring to him seeing both my mom and his current wife then I had NO control over that nor dud I know either. So why should I feel bad or bit seek him out since he was the one that did that nit me. Nor did I know he had done that.

I'm not understanding why I shouldn't seek him out just b/c the what ifs could come true? Yes in thus case a what if did come true but it wasn't my doing nor did I know. It is not fair to me to not seek him out just b/c of the what ifs. It is also not fair to him that he had no idea he had a child since my mom never told him.