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I know this is O/T buT I need to shout this some where!

purpledaisies's picture

My dd is graduating this year and she has been accepted to several colleges and she has already choose one. I am so proud of her as she has done everything herself. She has lots of scholarships. Already has her dorm reserved with her best friend as her room mate. I did nothing for her at all she did all this on her own. She has everything set up to where if she keeps her grades she keeps her scholarships. I told her last night she needs a job and save that money for when she goes as she doesn't know what will come up that she has to pay for. I also told her that if she gets a job and keeps her grades up I will help her from time to time such as buy her books. I can't afford much but I'm willing to try if she is. I will be giving her a car before she leaves b/c I want to make sure she will have a way to get out of any situation or place if she needs to and to come home when she needs to. I will also continue to pay her cell phone til the upgrade at which point she will have to get her won phone and she will be responsible for her gas and insurance.

I am just so proud of her that she is doing everything on her own.

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Still Have Hope's picture

You have every right to be proud. This reminds me of the saying "You are raising adults not children." You daughter will be a self sufficient woman who contributes to society. She was raised to be an adult not a freeloading burden on society like so many we here about on this site. Congratulations on your great parenting!

purpledaisies's picture

Thank you so much. I have always told my kids that I want to kn9ow that they can take care of themselves if I am not able to. That has always been my goal. I also stressed to her that if she got preggo that it would be way too hard to get through college and other things. I told her that she needs to get through college first.

Jsmom's picture

Good job. You should be proud of her and you for doing a great job raising her.