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Bm is not too happy but it is sooo funny.

purpledaisies's picture

AS I said before all three boys have their own cell phones.
Yesterday we were on our way to a birthday party with all the kids. BM texted dh to have ss11 call her. Dh told ss11 he needs to call his mom and asked why she didn't call him herself. SS11 said he has his phone turned off. Dh asked why and the other boys said they turn theirs off too as they got tired of her calling and texting all the time. I asked how long had they been doing that. They said for a few months.

I was wondering why their phones were so quite lately. LOL I just think it is too funny.

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Milomom's picture

Love it, purpledaisies, love it!!

You must have been giggling to yourself in private - tee hee hee!!!

It's SO rare when these BM's actions actually have a negative result with skids. In my case, BM would call skids on their cell phones dozens of times each day they're with us...and skids would just "eat it up" because she's MOTY and she has gotten them so used to talking to her multiple times/day, they are now just as co-dependent on her as she is on them. :sick:

"I was wondering why their phones were so quiet lately..." LOVE IT!!

Milomom's picture

I know, Crayon, I know. Sigh....

Don't you ever think to yourself "why the HELL does this woman have to call her kids multiple times/day?" Does she really have that LITTLE of her OWN LIFE?? It's just all so pathetic, that I just shake my head at them all.

You would think she'd be happy to have the FREEDOM of not having her kids 3-4 days/week when they live at our house?? Seriously, you'd think she'd actually have plenty of time to GET HER OWN LIFE.

Now that I think about it, though, those multiple per day phone calls to skids are all an ACT anyway. So skids can think "See? Mommy loves me, that's why she calls me so much - she CARES SO MUCH about me!!". And when my FDH doesn't crawl up their asses and call them every day like BM does, they probably think "Daddy doesn't care about me like Mommy does...". It's really all an ACT, though. These kids have absolutely NO CLUE WHATSOEVER the "other life" she leads when the kids aren't around...if you know what I mean.

purpledaisies's picture

Yes I was trying my best to not laugh even dh looked at me and knew I was trying not to bust out with it. He then mouths to me FUUUUNNNNYYYY!! too good!

Milomom's picture

Vickmeister, I wish that one day fskids would just start ignoring BM's calls...I wish. She never wants anything important, either.

Just part of the larger Parental Alienation plan for BM - she thinks if she calls skids multiple times/day = she loves skids more (and they probably DO think that way).

When FSS13 was younger, BM would spend almost the ENTIRE phone conversation with him repeating herself over and over:

"Love you, FSS, mwuah (kiss sound), love you, miss you so much, mwuah, etc..." This pathetic conversation would go back & forth for about 10-15 minutes at least twice/day. :sick: :sick:

Mind you, the skids live with US 50% of the time, too. So most of the time, she would call them within HOURS of when they got to our house!!! After being with her for 3 days!! How much can they MISS her, already??? Geeze, it's not like they haven't SEEN her for 3 months!

Another shining example of BM's that teach their kids (and thrive on) being co-dependent for the rest of their lives.

purpledaisies's picture

Yep same here bm wants nothing important either. Usually she wants to tell them what she got them while they were at our house. :sick:

My fav. though is around 5:30 on sun when we are on our way to drop them off she calls to find out what they want for dinner!!!

Milomom's picture

Purpledaisies, yes. Sigh...

Same crap here. Only now that they are older (FSD16 & FSS13), she'll not only call them incessantly but she'll also text message them incessantly. Always, always, always about absolutely NOTHING important. So annoying and pathetic. GET A LIFE!!

Also, she is FAMOUS for calling them back within a NANOSECOND if they call her from our house phone & she doesn't answer the call (rarely). I swear, she must think there's an axe murderer at our house - and there must be an EMERGENCY!! OMG, she's obsessed.

Jojo007's picture

Best moment ever was when she made one of her thousand calls and ss5 yelled inem the background "what does she want? I don't wanna talk to her" bah hahahahaha

purpledaisies's picture

Jojo the best moment I had was when ss11 was 8 he started talking to his mom but then about a min. into the convo he said "I don't want to do talk you anymore." handed the phone to his brother. Really we don't have to do much of anything as the boys do for us. LOL