So, SO called BM's mom asking if he could have the kids on Halloween, the only trick-or-treating day he has off. She says BM is supposed to take them out that night but she'll see what she can do because "it's not like she has a job" LMAO. Her mother even knows she's worthless.

This is what happened:
She calls and asks BM. BM says that she 'trumps' SO and that she will just take them both days. BM's mom replies with, "You will get them the 30th or not at all. You do nothing for these children and SO is still getting things for them and is apart of their life."
BM says, "I guess."

HA!

This is actually the first year we will have them on an actual holiday. Not just the day before or after. It's not a huge holiday, but still, this is great!