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my DH has been really clingy lately and I dont like it... I wanted him to want to "spend" more time with me but now i bugs me

prettyinpink's picture

My DH and I have been having some problems... it all started @ 3 weeks ago when he "claims" to have gotten a called from an "old guy friend" telling him that he found my FB page (how the hell does he know who I am when he stopped talking to my DH @8 yrs ago and Ive been with him for 7???) and that I have sexy/flirty pictures up and nasty/rude comments!!! um hello my page is (or was since i decided to deactivate my pg) full of decent pictures of my husband and my kids and I only except people that I know... so anyways my DH decided to believe his "friend" over his wife (btw their is NO proof because I did'nt do anything!!!) and he made a big deal telling me he wanted to see my phone records and he was going to check my phone at all times!!!! I felt so disrespected!!! I have always been a good wife and mother, Ive never cheated or done anything that can ruin my marriage!!! after a week of living hell everytime my phone rang or i received a text I told him I could'nt do this anymore because I dont need to proof my self or "earn his trust" when I have'nt done anything to begin with!!! He cryed and told me that a family member had told him that I was going to strip clubs and partys when I "claim" to be at my parents... are you F'ing kidding me??? I dont give a shit who told you or what they told you... you dont doubt your wife who has never done anything and to top it off they have no proof!!!! now he is all clinggy to me calling me 24/7 he doesnt even leave the room when i am home and now he is interested in my shows!!! omg I am going CRAZY!!!!!! I did'nt do anything!!!!

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StepMomJane's picture

Eesh, whether the other commenters are right or not, this isn't good. Lots of insecurities here. Why is he letting these people dictate what he thinks about you? Why would he believe their word over yours? (Esp. with no proof) Just curious.

prettyinpink's picture

I honestly dont think that he is doing something and thats the reason why he is all of a sudden acting like that... he has been cheated in the past, as a matter of fact his BM cheated and before their daughter was born he wasnt sure he was the father, but I dont think its fair for me that because of what someone did to him in the past and what someone told him I have to pay!!!!!! I dont know what to do!!!