I don't even know if I can get into the big issue. I'm so upset about it I can't even sit here and type it all out. So I'm going start with the other stuff and see how it goes.

Laundry pile still sitting there.....and another pile forming him his room. Dh is now looking at having to do three weeks of his laundry....well almost three weeks since he's been rewearing the same uniform three days this week. I ran a quick load of MY laundry last night and threw it in the drier this morning. So I will come home on Monday to no laundry waiting on me, and I will do our trip laundry at my moms before we fly back....so MY lab dry is set. Have fun dealing with your lazy ass kid dh.

Yesterday was dhs half day at work, so normally he would be home when SS gets home from school. But he had to run some errands and we met at the store on my way home from work because he found a great sale and he needed some clothes. He's lost 8 pant sizes and 3 shirt sizes from his surgery He needed my credit card so we all got home a bit later than I usually would. SS had been home for just over two hours alone.

I got home a few minutes before dh....the house reeked of cat piss. SS is supposed to scoop the boxes every other day....he hasn't done it since last Thursday. He's sitting in his room watching TV. The cats are sitting by the cupboard still waiting to be fed....he was supposed to have fed them an hour previously.

Dh walks in and smells the cat piss. Asks what that smell is. I tell him and mention that SS hasn't done the boxes in a week. As dh is walking back to talk to SS, they cats swarm him in a panic asking to be fed...."dude you didn't feed the cats?!?! They are starving!" Did you shower? No. Did you eat dinner? No. So what have you been doing the past two hours? Sitting here watching TV. (Note: the litter boxes and feeding the cats are his only chores at all) WTF. He's supposed to read outloud and hour a night to catch up on his reading. Dh told him he didn't ha e to read on Friday and Saturday night (why I dont know) and SS hasn't cracked a book since. Dh hasn't taken the effort to check up on him. So a whole week now of him falling even farther behind.

I've also noticed that his toothbrush hasn't moved in a week. Who knows how much longer before I took notice.

SS didn't even get up to feed himself until 5 minutes to bedtime. Dh bought a ton of easy food for him to make... Told him if he was hungry after school to feel free to make it or if we are running late he can make himself dinner. In addition to all that there was left over pizza in the fridge. Too lazy to even microwave pizza to feed himself.

Conference night is tonight for ss's school. Is dh going? Nope. Did SS even give us the conference paper telling us what time to meet his teachers? Nope. Has dh checked to see if the online grades site is up and working yet? Nope.

And I can't even get into what went down this morning.....