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What a B****

So DH is home for this weekend. So he calls bm to get ss7. She says that he has a soccor game saturday morning and we can meet her there. DH says he'll take hom to soccer, she says no. So he doesn't want to argue, he says fine. So it's Saturday, i get up, get my self ready and DD ready, it's really early. Then DH calls to say that we are on are way. She says that now SS has a sleepover tonight and can't come. DH says he wants to talk to SS, and only after SS realizes that it's DH on the phone that he begs to talk to him. SS said that he not coming over, but that he wants to.

Visitation?

Ok so for the past few months DH has been working out of town, he comes home about once a month. So my question is, should SS7 still be coming for his weekend visitation? He has his little sister here, and I like having him here, most of the time. On occasion I will request not to take him, or just for one night, like when DD is sick, or stuff like that. But often BM will say he's not coming cuz DH isn't home. So I was just wondering what everyones take on this is.

Child Support Question????

Ok, so we pay almost 400 a month is child support for ss7. DH and I have a 5 month old baby (so money is always tight.) So my question is, how much other stuff are we suppose to provide, like I mean we pay the 400, and BM asked us to buy all the back to school clothes and the school fee, and stuff like that. So what are we suppose to provide? Should that be in the child support order, should we get it put in?? I'm reluctant to buy extra stuff, well except for like clothes when he need them, or occasional things if that makes any sence. Or spliting the cost with her. But really??

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Left alone

So the "boys" went camping. It makes me mad that every time I try to talk to DH about this he gets all upset. He thinks I'm trying to keep him doing things with his son. But it;s not that. I just don't think it's fair that every weekend there has to be something special planned for SS. Why do we have to bwend over backwards to make sure his weekend are do dam special. While durning the week it just the same old thing. It like come the weekend me and our daughter get ignored. Nothing special is planned for DD.

a little left out

Well DH is planning a camping trip with SS this weekend. But because it's tent camping, the baby and I can't come (it will be too cold) Last weekend, they went on an all day fishing trip. I'm just feeling really left out. He says it's importnat for them to have special time together, but what about family things all of us can do. I don't think it's very fair that come the weekend, me and our daughter kind of get pushed to the side lines. He says that he see us all week, but only gets to see SS on the weekends. DH parents are the same way.

indecent expousor?

I got a call from BM saying that me breastfeeding my daughter in front of SS6 is causing problems. That it's causing him to ask a bunch of questions, that she doesn't want to answer. But I don't think that a bad thing. Most kids have questions about sexuality at this age any ways. While I was pregrante he had lots of questions. would it cause mental problems for a six year old to watch me breastfeed a baby? it's not like I'm walking around topless.

gunna decortate

Well thanks to everyones good advice I went out to walmart and got the stuff to decorate the room. We have decided that the majority of the room will be for our daughter, and SS6 will still have his bed and posters in there and a special shelf for his stuff. But I'm moving in all the babies stuff this week. I told SS this, and boy was he not happy, but we said that it was time. And we explained that he has his own room at his mom's house that he was able to decortate any way he wanted.

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The Start

When I first got Pregnante with my daughter, we told SS right away, he even came to doctors appointments with me sometimes. And everything was going good. I wanted to start doing things in the bedroom while I was pregante, to give SS more time to get used to it, but DH wouldn't agree. SS seemed ok with the idea of having a baby sister while I was pregnate. But now, it just gets worse everyweekend. How much extra father son time should my DH be sepending with SS on the weekends?

still more problems

So I moved the babies Crib into the room, wow what a fight that was. SS threw things at it, and tried to take it apart. I had to get DH set in. We talked to him that now he will have to share the room. But he was so upset. I'm at my wits end. I've tried to move things in slowly, but I always find them in the hall after wards. When Baby is a toddler, I just don't know what to do. there is no way we can afford a 3 bedroom place. And I just don't think it's fair for my daughter to share a room with her brother after that point, we may have to move him to the couch on weekends.

my new baby

I'm new on here and kind of need to vent. I just had a new baby, and my husband has a 6 year old from his ex. Lately I feel very resentful of the 6 year old. The new baby and him have to share a room, I really want to decorate the room for the baby, cuz the 6 year old is only here on the weekend, 2 nights. But my husband feels like the room is just for his soon. Baby is now 2 month old, and has nothing in the room for her. I can't move anything in there with out hearing a fit from the 6 year old that it's his room. It's driving me up the wall.

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