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Submitted by peachymom on Fri, 11/09/2007 - 12:46pm

Ok so for the past few months DH has been working out of town, he comes home about once a month. So my question is, should SS7 still be coming for his weekend visitation? He has his little sister here, and I like having him here, most of the time. On occasion I will request not to take him, or just for one night, like when DD is sick, or stuff like that. But often BM will say he's not coming cuz DH isn't home. So I was just wondering what everyones take on this is.
Another question, BM has a boyfriend that's been there for a really long time. Do think it's right SS to call boyfriend Dad, and DH by his first name at his mothers house. But under no cercumsatnce will SS will call me Mom, he even corrects people who will refere to me as his mom "she not my mom". Thanks for your adivice

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Submitted by Colorado Girl on Fri, 11/09/2007 - 1:47pm

with Daddysgurl (as usual Smile ) I think it's really up to you. I'm assuming you have EOW, so really I think it's great that he gets to spend time with his little sister. My youngest would be devastated if he didn't get to see his step-sisters, especially the one his age. My DH works every once in a while and I always take the girls, it was too much of a disruption otherwise with their pain in the butt mom.

As far as referring to his dad by his first name. Hell no is an understatement. I'm a firm believer in this one - I would flip if my kids referred to me by my first name and someone else as mom. That's just ridiculous. How would BM feel if your SS started calling her by her first name and you as mom?

"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain."