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O.M.G. Could she possibly be any more inconsiderate?!

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OMG! So - 9:45PM SS finally arrives. :jawdrop: At the scheduled drop time (9PM), XW#2 calls DH and says she's just now leaving her activity that she just HAD to go to. WTF?!?!? Oh and get this - DH just tells SS that BM wants to pick him up early on Sunday so they can sit in front of her house and sell pictures that he draws. Are you freaking kidding me?! I can feel my cheeks flushing and ears burning! NOT ONLY does she drop him off late, but now she wants to pick him early too for, once again, something she wants to do? I am so sick of catering to this bitch.

Irritated...

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So it's another SK weekend, this time only with SS8. DH and XW#2 are establishing drop-off plans and then XW says "Is it okay to drop him off at 9PM? There's a church picnic and his older sister will be arriving late because of a field hockey game and she wants to spend time there." WTF? Since when are we making schedules around her other brats? Of course DH doesn't give a shit so he says that's fine. I'm irritated because it seems like we are constantly changing plans to accommodate her stupid packing-everything-into-every-minute ass.

I'm going to be sick :sick:

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Okay - so I blogged last week about my concern with SD15's continued dealings with XSF. I talked to DH last night about my concerns and I know he hears me but he is one of those "I'll do it when i'm ready" types. I'm continuing to find out more information about these dealings and involvement and it makes me physically ill.

Here are some for instances:

QUESTION: Would you prefer your SK's to be upfront honest with you all the time?

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I remember the day I met my now SD for the first time. She was 9 at the time, kind of shy but nice and accepting overall and pretty pleasant. I probably committed the biggest SM sin that could ever be done - i told that little sweetie that "if I do something you don't like or agree with, I need you to tell me." Now fortunately/unfortunately she's never said a word directly to me about things that I may have said or done that she disagreed with, but I thought about it just now - Do I really WANT her to tell me what she's REALLY thinking?

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