DH has been struggling with XW#1 ever since they got divorced about putting SD into extra-curricular activities. The problem has never been that she was involved - the problem is that he was never consulted with on these decisions - he was just expected to comply. So we were jumping through hoops to get SD to this event and that event, no matter what our plans might have been. That stopped when SD decided a few years ago she was not coming over to Dad's house anymore. That lasted for a year until he charged BM with contempt a year after that decision was made.

My SS is 8 and he has a very busy schedule during the week. Monday through Friday he goes to school and then he has evening activities Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, which does not get him home until 8:30-9PM most nights. He just got signed up for another event which is directly after school but on the nights that he has other activities, he has 2 hours to fit in getting home, getting fed, and doing homework before running off to something else.

This topic has been burning my tail feathers for a while and it's really not about what you are probably thinking. This actually has to do with SD15 and SS20.

So DH and I stopped by the lawyer's office this afternoon to sign the change of venue paperwork and to review the draft custody agreement for SS8 that we prepared. I'm really excited about getting this agreement put in place so we can finally hold XW#2/BM accountable for her actions and force her to plan. She has been off the hook and has become increasingly blatant with her disregard/inconsideration of DH's time with SS.