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Not my Kid not my problem getting old

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My SS12 drives me bonkers but as much as I hate him, I love him too. He has been through a lot and needs help. Well in October me and DH got lectured to by BM about SS12's behavior. First I have never ever had a women talk to me like that before. Not even my mother would risk it. But I kept my mouth shut because its not my place. Go me.

Wow....

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So I just made a blog about how my SS is so judgmental and rude... And had this moment where I realized why I disliked the kid so much... He is EXACTLY like my ex-husband (even looks kinda like him). Talks, acts, judges and everything just like my dumb ex... GREAT

Any advise

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So last night me and DH were talking about his son. Who is doing much better but still has his moments. Anyway him and his ex do not have anything set up with friend of the court, they did the divorce themselves and have set up there own child support. While SS was living with my DH she never paid a dime of child support. Well SS lives with her now and we pay 80 bucks a week, all medical expenses and extra stuff for SS that he needs while there. DH told me last night that his ex, her DH and her there combined 4 sons are not doing well.

Getting Bent

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So.... this is more of a life rant then anything else.

My mom is getting married for the 4th time on Tuesday at 6pm. A bit inconvenient for mostly everyone. I am the officiant and have a lot of responsibility on my shoulders. Not to mention the fact that they want me to spend the weekend doing wedding stuff. Now, normally this would be a fun time full of nothing but fun girlie stuff... Let's explain why its not that for me.

Update: Did ya miss it?

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Soooo, My husband can be a dick. He is selfish, childish and immature. I love him aside of all that but its what makes him... him.

I just posted a blog about dinner and tv. When he got home from work I talked to him about how I was feeling. That I wanted at least 30 min of no tv while everyone eats dinner, because when we lived at my place we always ate at a table with no tv on. He agreed that we should start doing that, but maybe have friday we have dinner with a movie night or something. I agreed and thought it was great to compromise.

Did ya miss it!?

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Ok, so we have a small house, it was my dh's home and we moved here because the payment was cheaper and I was just renting. I love this house, the location, the size, the price. The only draw back is we don't have an area for any kind of kitchen table. So, we eat off tv trays in the living room. At first we never had the TV on then time went on, and now the TV is always on when we eat. I know its not that healthy but it doesn't totally bother me. Well, last night we were watching a show on the DVR and I saw my son shoveling food into his mouth from his plate.

going nutty

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So bs11 came home from school and they had an assembly today that was about the red wings. They sent home a paper that you can get front row tickets for 40 bucks.. great deal but after 5 people that's to much. So before he even asks if we can go he says "I'm gonna ask dad to take me because you don't have enough money" mind you dh just paid for bs to play travel football which was 300 bucks. I stay home and go to school full tome while my dh works his butt off for us. I blew up in bs for his comment. I'm so tired of dear daddy getting credit for things because he married a sugar mama.

Darling Husband...

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I love my husband. We fit together well most of the time. However, there are times where I don't think Darling husband really fits it. Sometimes there are other choice words that I would like to use to call him. He spent 9 years being single living with his son, just the two of them. No women except my MIL that has really had much influence. So when I go to the bathroom in the middle of the night and the toilet seat wasn't put up I know who it was. Or when there is trash left all over the house I do not want to call him darling husband.

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