Dear Ex-wife......
If you only knew how stupid and desperate you look!
* There was a time when you taught your kids that physical intervention was the way to solve their problems.....yeah, smart one! There always some kind of drama going on at your house.
* St...op allowing your daughter to wear the sluttiest clothes she find. You also allow her to post picture of herself on FB with skanky clothes to give sick people ideas about her. These pictures make her look much older than she is......It is no wonder she and her friend were almost abducted. You her allow to hang out with a girl who talks to scary men on the internet and then they come to her house!
You will be very lucky if she is not pregnant before she is out of high school! But wait that's probably what you want.....you were very supportive of your other daughter getting pregnant at 16.
* Don't you want something better for your kids than what you had growing up? Don't you want them to grow up and be able to support themselves someday?
* Stop trying to compete with me, because it will be a battle you will never win.
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It really is a vicious cycle.
It really is a vicious cycle. The God saving grace is that those girls have someone like you in their lives to show them how classy is a much better route to take.
I do and my opinion does
I do and my opinion does not....The more I encourage the right thing, the more rebellious she is!
I wish I had listened to my
I wish I had listened to my mother from way back when.... I certainly wouldn't be where I am now. But I was like your SD..... If my mom told me to go left, I was sure to go right! Good luck!
What bothers me is I try send
What bothers me is I try send them in the direction I feel is the right one. Then, they go in the opposite direction. Then, when they screw up and want me to feel sorry for them.....
We have made personal
We have made personal responsibility a focus of our parenting for nearly my SS's entire life. So far we seem to have broken the cycle of teen parenthood and criminal behavior with SS-18. My wife had him when she was 16. She has invested her entire adult life in to ensuring that she nor SS are saddled with the consequences of that decision. SS is an only child in our home and the oldest of four out-of-wedlock children for his BioDad.(by three different BMs)
BioDad has some criminal offenses in his record and has for the most part dedicated himself to pumping out an endless stream of entitlement babies that are dumped on SpermGrandMa to raise and support.
SS understands how to avoid the big stuff and associated consequences. What he has not figured out is the connection between the quality of his decisions and effort and the quality of results.
Hopefully he will get there without having to learn a big lesson regarding unwed parenting, arrests, etc....
Good luck with yours. She sounds like a train wreck waiting to happen.